Dear Parents, Students, Good afternoon!
thank you for busy parents, by taking the time to attend today's parents. Today's parents, long-awaited school is open or not open, according to the school in recent years, the experience of parents held, the final decision is still open. The most important thing a school is to educate children, the most important thing a family is also educating the children. Now the development of society, education is faced with many challenges and pressures, such as social development,UGGs, the children face the temptation of more family education and school education is facing a lot of embarrassment and helplessness, we feel that today's kids are not Renxiaoguitai know more than we accept new things faster than we; social development, the survival of mankind is faced with the primary pressure, it was busy working, family education and school education out of touch, rear children has become a major issue concerns the whole society; urban and rural areas education, widening scissors,UGG boots cheap, etc., so now educate their children face greater pressure, many parents say, today's children are too poor education, and home schools which need to educate their children together to create this big project concerns the future of humanity.
for a family, children education, good or bad will determine the fate of the entire family. Students shape up for a school, only 1% loss, while a family is a loss of 100%. Some people have to take both a standard to measure the achievements of one's life, that a person's career success whether the child of promise,UGG boots, success, and officials did great, making money a lot, the family is very rich, but children do not Offer , is only half the battle, so the tradition is one of China's Godfather of care do not have, especially in today's society, social prosperity, and physical condition is superior, and can be traps around children, innocent children are slightly inattentive would fall into the trap, slipped into a life-long hate ah, which requires parents to our children when minors, palm at the helm for the children to check and child education issues, schools and families to become a first class of the event!
We have had many parents would think, the children went to school, want the issue resolved by the parents in the education of teachers to manage all the problems. This view is wrong, as a teacher of a class in the same class, why student achievement will be very different? This is one of the key lies in family education. The results showed that: 54.5% of the students 'least favorite person' was actually filled column 'parent'. while the 'big family you care about what' the problem, 90% of parents did not hesitate to choose the 'children's education'. why are most concerned about children's education has become the parents of children who do not like the most? to a few errors because of family education, resulting in output does not set a good parent: first, very much spoiled, neglected non- The second intellectual factors, spiritual violence, killing the third set independent personality, physical stimulation, the induction of the fourth disguised money worship, corporal punishment at every turn, the best exam-oriented education the fifth accomplice, mood swings, unpredictable changes in policy. Sixth, the spirit of , the child is the parents are most familiar with strangers. Seventh, moral, parents and schools with the super-blank. Eighth, life, near-flood of material support
So how do the parents of a competent , in the character, personality, learning, education for children and influence for good? I think there are a few main four aspects:
First, teaching students life, to cultivate good character habits of children.
Chinese traditional family is the focus on teaching children the essence of life. first learn to behave, and then learn to do things. Chinese history on the tutor's house rules,UGG boots clearance, family training, home range, as are all the key elements to teach the child life. North Song Dynasty Package save for the situation of corruption in society at that time, special attention to moral education of future generations. In his later years, please set a stonemason's family motto of his in the large grave in, not from the Wu Zhi, Sun is also if the non-Wu Zi. , tutoring principles. On his deathbed he left a suicide note to his son: ideological and moral education, relationship to the child what path, what people do, the key issue of success. Now there are many parents raise children are often taught to think, it is naturally linked to intellectual development, one talked about family education, that is pegged to the child's learning, and for the children how to start in life regardless of education is ignored, it was said that a student studies well is defective, dangerous goods is not good behavior, academic, character is not good scrap, teach children important in life.
Second, do full-time parents, more time and patience to communicate and children.
have a successful parent, said the parents of my career. children do not just meet Parent material to give students and parents need is a sincere exchanges. often motivates a student to learn the expectations of parents, parents to be regular students to understand the situation, the situation in school, and students to develop learning objectives. Parents should care a little more effort into learning. learning process for students to manage the time to understand what the child knows the school, what time school, a day to learn how long to complete teacher assignments not completed. This the children feel their parents to learn the concerns, of course, will be very hard in learning and strive to improve learning. According to the parents of students to determine the level of interest can draw on the general level of interest in their children, for example, some parents school school do not even know the specific time of day, the students do not know what amount of work should be complete. Some parents always said, too busy, I said, no matter how busy parents, but also for what? There are many parents is focusing on saving for their children to study, then you have ever thought of using your energy to now save a university degree for the children, save a child will eat a good job. short-term difficulties with long-term difficulties which one would you choose ? say how much time your life can stay with their children using it?
parental investment in education is the most sensible investment is the highest rate of return on investment, so I think that as parents and children should work together to concentrate more into the child's learning to care, to cultivate their children.
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