Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Fable abandoned

 Withered roses, the bees are still hard suck, because it takes before sucking off from this little sweet. But now in this little to spend, the bees suck the venom.
Bees know this, because the bitter venom with previous taste is different. As a result, bees anger, however, breathe on it the whole world looked up to complain about, why the taste changed?!
Finally one day,Bailey UGG boots, do not know why the bees wing vibration , fly a little higher. At this time, it found, withered roses around the flowers everywhere.
Psychological Review
This is the fable about love, is a real perception of young people.
have period of time, she rejected in love, painful, and always wanted to talk about me, I hope I can give her some knowledge of psychology help. We have some time, but almost two months later, the two can not happen to scrape together the total time together.
the last time about her, she said: trance, can not enjoy the beauty of Jiuzhaigou. inadvertently, she noticed a little on the honey bee is a flower. that moment, her mind like thunder and lightning appeared in one sentence: the bees can only suck the venom. give up the truth out. In the past, she wanted me to help her out, but in fact, the long wings in her own body, she can fly to fly.
give up is not easy, love to give up, especially in the painful . because love is when our young copy of parent-child relationship. young children, no matter from which side, parents can not do without. If a complete denial of his father and mother, and that means death for him This is the ultimate injury and fear. We have experienced more or less been denied parents the pain and fear, so when love mmm copy of the parent-child relationship once again the pain and fear we experience when Our emotions can easily become very bad.
However, compared to love and parent-child relationship, there is a huge difference: a child, nothing we can do, all parents have the final say; But now we grow up, we have the power to choose their own destiny. can be said that a child, we do not have wings, bee, but now we have a pair of powerful wings.
However, when deeply in love, we will return to childhood, we forget that they have a pair of wings to fly. and so we ourselves realize that, the love is no longer automatically copy parent-child relationship, our love was free, there is the power to give up .
Remember: Love is two things, two completely equal, there are things that people independent personality. You can work, but not that hard for you there will be results, because another person, you not so.
So, no matter how much you care about a love, if another person determined to leave you, please respect his choice.
And also remember, you are no longer childhood, are left suffering torture. you have adults, you have a pair of powerful wings, you can fly out of a relationship has become poison.

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